Nirvana in Mocha

Rarely do you appreciate the fact that we grow older & older each day. How you started cycling without your dad standing behind. How you started having rolls in canteen instead of mom’s paranthas. How you started borrowing your dad’s car instead of asking for him to drop.

I am talking about the moment when my friend from our group got placed. As he was the first one to achieve the milestone, we all decided that it must be celebrated in the grandest way possible. We pondered over many ideas & contemplated many of them. At the end of rigorous thinking, we all settled to the idea of having drinks in castle9@CP and then going to famous hookah joint “Mocha”

Castle9@CP is the normal bar where you can appreciate the pleasure of a glass of vodka sitting in the heart of Delhi i.e. CP & still able to save a penny.

Now the best thing about hookah is that it hardly leaves you with any guilt and thus is best for people like me. Another attraction is the bold & beautiful girls there invigorating the whole environment. The moment you enter, it seems like we are up to some good deed & should start as soon as possible. In my personal opinion the Mocha@GK2 is much better than at Defcol or galleria market. The opened porch area there gives a totally different surrounding. Coming back to the scene, we all sat down occupying the veranda seats & waited for the menu. Throwing my eye balls on each & every flavor, my eyes stuck to one name “nirvana”, though I am neither spiritual nor a great fan of band “nirvana” but somehow I sensed an urge to have nirvana. So in accord of the whole group, we ordered nirvana. The hookah lasted hardly for half an hour but in the meanwhile I thought of this blog, about my friends ,about my college, my future & one more thing- how in my childhood I said one day to my dad “dad, don’t smoke, don’t you know its injurious for your health.”

Identity Crisis

Now, here I am alluding to the most pandemic but least noticed element of personality i.e. identity crisis. I define it as the mental state in which person doesn’t find his/her niche in the existing environment & tries to come out of the situation in an aggravated manner either by doing things which shows his worthiness or by accusing his/her surroundings for the present scenario.

What kind of people?

• People who have been earlier in places which gave them authority or importance and with time they think that they have lost their worthiness. In such situations people loses their stability of mind & become high-tempered, hyper & a person emanating negativity. With such kind of people around you, one hardly can do anything productive.
• People whose social life is very restricted & when they get exposure to the colorful life, they get fantasized about the people & try to somehow live like them which in urbane language can be termed as wannabe.

Symptoms:

· People who have been with the affected person can easily pinpoint that the person is having identity crisis.

· One is always unsatisfied & insatiate by his life, whatever is the situation.

· People try to imitate the ones from whom they are fantasized & they pretend as if they have been doing a particular thing for ages.

· People do not miss any opportunity to let down the person because of which they feel their identity in danger.

Cure:

· One of the most effective methods is to keep in mind” never ever there have been two similar people. If every person had to be same then why did god make different life forms, different plants, and different fruits? Every holy soul on this earth has a particular reason to live. One has just to make sure he is justifying his very reason.

Be Confident. Simple but useful. Nothing is impossible if you have the will to make it possible. One thing you have in your hands is to try because those who try only they succeed